What If My Child Gets Homesick at Overnight Camp?

Homesickness is one of the most common concerns families have when considering overnight camp. It is also one of the most normal parts of a child’s growth.

At Camp Laurelwood, homesickness is something our staff expect and prepare for every summer. Feeling homesick does not mean a child is failing or that camp was a mistake. In most cases, it means a child has strong family connections and is learning how to manage new independence.

For parents, this can feel harder than it does for campers. Being away from your child for the first time brings its own emotions, and it is natural to worry about how they are feeling when you are not there to help.

Homesickness often shows up at predictable moments like bedtime or rest hour, when the day finally slows down. Our counselors are trained to recognize these moments and respond calmly with reassurance, routine, and redirection back into camp life. We focus on helping campers stay engaged, feel supported, and build confidence rather than dwelling on distress.

Communication with parents is thoughtful and intentional. While it may feel instinctive to want immediate contact, hearing from home too soon can sometimes make homesickness stronger rather than better. We work closely with families to decide when communication is helpful and when allowing campers space leads to healthier adjustment.

For most children, homesickness fades within the first few days. What replaces it is often pride, confidence, and a growing sense of independence that carries far beyond the summer.